Tinder: Speed at the expense of depth
Tinder has fundamentally changed the way people meet. Think of the app as an endless catalog of photos of potential partners. A photo of a person appears on your screen along with some basic information — age, distance from you, a short description, and hobbies.
Now comes the famous “swipe.” Swiping left means “no, thanks,” while swiping right means “yes, I’m interested.” The person on the other end does the same with your photo. If you both swipe right, a “match” is created, and only then can you start messaging each other.
Advantages of Tinder:
A huge selection of potential partners
Convenience of using it anytime, anywhere
The ability to read a little about the other person beforehand
Disadvantages of Tinder:
Superficial judgment based solely on photos
High competition (especially among men)
Frequent “ghosting” and canceled dates
Reliance on appearance and the ability to “sell yourself” in photos
Fake accounts
Speed dating is a modern and fun way to meet people that allows you to get to know up to 10 potential partners in a single evening. Each conversation lasts about 5 minutes, which is just the right amount of time to see if there’s a spark between you and if you’re interested in staying in touch.
Unlike online dating sites, here you have the chance to actually talk to the other person, see their facial expressions, hear their laughter, and feel that amazing chemistry that no photo can capture. And you don’t have to worry about awkward situations — no one knows your name, and asking for contact information is prohibited. If the attraction is mutual, the organizers will simply provide you with each other’s contact information, and then it’s up to you to decide where your story together will go.
Benefits of speed dating:
Meet up to 10 potential partners in a single evening
Get to know the other person’s true personality — facial expressions, gestures, and communication style
No stress from unknown contacts — anonymity is guaranteed
A controlled and safe environment free from harassment
The opportunity to meet people outside your usual social circle
Instant feedback
No fake profiles or misleading photos
Disadvantages of speed dating:
Only 5 minutes to make a first impression (though that’s often enough)
In-person attendance on a specific date and time
Limited number of participants compared to the endless number of profiles online
This is where AKCE SPOLU comes in — a project that proves speed dating can be even better. Instead of stiff dating events, AKCE SPOLU offers a natural and fun approach to meeting people.
“We’re not just another dating service,” says Robert Grepl, founder of the AKCE SPOLU project. “Throughout the Czech Republic, we organize events for singles where you’ll not only meet new people, but also have fun, play sports, or relax.”
If you’re interested in meeting new people through fun activities, check out the speed dating events in Ostrava or explore all the available events throughout the country. AKCE SPOLU organizes events from Brno to Karlovy Vary.
